I received an anonymous response to my last post tonight. I did not approve the post for two reasons: it was written anonymously (I have long said that anonymous postings will be banned on this blog, as it invites impermissible abuse) and it was clearly written by someone intimately familiar with the geography of the gym at issue, and which leads me to believe it was one of HER cronies, if not HER directly – since I did not name the gym or its actual location in my post. Clearly the responder knows not only of the gym at issue, but is trying to defend HER being there. For the reasons discussed, HER being there has no legitimate purpose: SHE was there to cause problems, and she did.
But this being said, there were a couple of points that do need a fair response:
First, it was pointed out that SHE could have been invited by another player. The EX game mechanics provide for game invites (as I described) and for anyone invited to actually invite one other person. I did neglect to mention this in my post, but it was not a deliberate oversight. I had actually meant to make a comment about that, but forgot by the time I had written and posted the entry.
To this point: The second mechanic I forgot to discuss means there are inherent pairings that go on at EX raids. People invite other people they know or have played with, and they have to be Ultra Friends, ie, they have to have been friends in the game a *really* long time, having gone through three of the four rankings of friendship in the game. As expected, each tier is harder to accomplish than the tier before, and it requires a pretty rigorous routine of sharing gifts for a couple months (at least, if done daily) to achieve – since the tier level can only rise once a day, no matter of whether you are both sending gifts or not. At the time I received my invitation, I only had one Ultra Friend, and she was the only person I could have invited, even though there were others I would rather have.
Now, I mention this because amongst the group, there were maybe three people I did not recognize, whom I had never seen at gym raids. Everyone else had someone with them whom I had seen them playing with before. And of course, SHE had her husband with her, and therefore she was paired, as well. So the chances of two of the three whom I did not recognize to have invited both HER and her husband is pretty much a Hail Mary longshot of possibility. Therefore, I stand that either HER or her husband have been frequenting the gym within view of my home, and did not attend because they were extraneously invited.
That said, even if the possibility existed that they were both invited, SHE knew full well that the gym was two blocks from my home, and she had already been informed that I was playing the game. SHE has alleged, repeatedly, that she is supposedly afraid of me – so why would she attend a gym raid that she knew was only two blocks from my home and she knew there was an INCREDIBLY high likelihood that I would be at, if she did not do so for a deliberate and nefarious purpose?
There’s only one reason SHE would have been there: because SHE knew the location, and SHE knew she could provoke problems by going there for the EX gym raid. If both SHE and her husband had been invited extraneously and had never actually been at the gy before, they would not have come – because she has been building a narrative that SHE is supposedly afraid of being anywhere near me. SHE came because she had been there before and knew people there would be used to seeing her there. In other words, this veil had already been pierced, so maintaining the facade that SHE was afraid of being around me was pointless. So she came to accomplish exactly what she did: to create a scene that would give her a vehicle with which to harass and provoke me.
Second, the person that wrote the anonymous referred to “the individual… [I] will not say the name of”, implying that I am refusing the name her. But as I have mentioned – frequently – everytime I name her in a new post, she runs to the police, sheriff, my probation office and the courts with some new made up allegation and tries to claim I am doing something wrong. Anyone reading my last post will note there are no threats, implied or otherwise, and I do my level best to make sure there is nothing that can be taken that way, but it never fails: she always takes something out of context and tries to claim it is a threat. So I have simply found that the path of least resistance is simply to not post new material with her name, and reference back to other material where her name is mentioned.
It is not that I refuse to name her; it is that she keeps manipulating my using her name to create some fabricated claim of wrongdoing on my part that makes it impossible to even say the simplest thing. For instance, if I said, “I would never hurt HER (substitute her name here)”, she would be filing a sheriff’s report saying that was actually a threat, that I was somehow sending her a secret message that I was coming after her.
It does not matter that her and her cronies go onto Craigslist, Facebook, and other social media and run my name around to everything short of the JFK murders, and actually make genuine and direct threats of actual acts of harm against me – what matters is that the law enforcement in this town have a bone with me and will validate whatever angle SHE gives them to run with, because it justifies their harassment of me. I have made countless reports of actual threats of harm that SHE has been behind, even filed a lawsuit for a hack of my accounts that SHE was behind, but law enforcement and the courts protect her; but if she goes and says I have threatened her through some secret innuendo language that only she knows, I can guarantee the sheriff or police will be investigating.
So before trying to lay an allegation that I am refusing to name someone, try taking it into the actual context and the reasons I have already given.
The bottom line here is that SHE is not going to able to gloss this one over. SHE has been caught, and SHE cannot backtrack away from this. SHE has been watching my home, and I now know one of the places SHE has been doing it from.